Do we believe and know how cell phones hurt our relationships ? Many studies reported that our cell phones powering down our relationships step by step. In," How Your Cell Phones Hurt Your Relationships," Helen Lee Lin reports that our smart phones harm our relationships. A recent set of studies by University of Essex, researchers found that can hurt our relationships many ways. Besides, smart phones also may be reduce our consciousness and distract our mind during an important work. I know Helen Lee Lin is right when she describes cell phones powering down and hurt our relationships because it harm our relationships and distract our attention.
At first, cell phones harm our relationships everyday in our lives although many believe our smart phones boosts interpersonal connections, by allowing people to stay in touch constantly. I believe create distance between our family members and love one's by killing our times. In article, author reports that many studies point out and illustrates how smart phones kill our times and kill relationships with our beloved persons and families. Nowadays, if we ask anyone, what things he/she love the most and spend time with? I believe most of the people will say they love their smart phones and they spend much their spare time with it by playing games, browsing net and listening music instead of doing those together with family members. Most of us are now stranger to this scenario: a family members sits down together and have meal, laughing, talking to each other, telling stories or watching movies. To tell the truth, sometimes we seat together but we keep busy ourselves by using our cells and even spend hours not talking to each others. Consequently, it create distance day by day when we spend much of our leisure time with our cells instead of our love one's. Thus, cells create many family problems in our society and make people unhappy; on top of that, destroy many relationship and families. For examples, one of my friends has been married for 12 years and has a kid. They were very happy in their lives except last 3 years. Nowadays, they are having many troubles and fight with each other most of the times, blaming each other not giving enough time with kid and family. His wife complained to his father in law that he does not give her and kid enough time because he spend much time with his smart phone even though he works 3-4 days a week. Besides, she also complained that he browse net , play games,listen music, watch movie alone on his smart phone. Moreover, he can not get enough sleep at night because he spend a lot of time with it and it might create mental problems. Likewise, sometimes he play games on internet for 3-4 hours continuously. I realize and believe that cell phones powering down their relationship and making their lives miserable; besides, distract his attention to family and reduced his affection to his wife and kid. Thus, i believe that if he spend his free time with his family instead of his phone; without doubt, he will able to fix their problem and will have a happy life.
Next, our smart phones distract our attention during works and important conversations. Cell phones put us in danger by distracting our attention. For examples, Every year many people die around the world in car accidents, only reason is during driving they text or talk on the phones. The lose their beloved person or member of family in those accidents. In this case, we can easily point out the reason of the accidents; obviously, the cause is cell phones distracted driver attention during driving. Moreover, cell phones put us many problems and hurt our relationships by losing our love one's in accidents. We should not talk or text while driving to stay alive with our love one's.
In conclusion, cell phones makes our lives sometimes miserable by creating distance and destroying our relations instead of boosts our inter personal connection. we must be careful of using cell phones in our daily lives. We should pass our leisure times with our families or the love one's to built a stable beautiful relationships. We should have fun by gossiping, telling stories, going out with family or doing activities with beloved person instead of cell phones. We should use cell phones when its needed.
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